1. To think of or represent an idea or emotion as if it were something that actually exists
2. To reduce somebody, or something that is complex and multifaceted, to the status of a simple object
When it comes to my writing, it’s been more contemplative than inspired lately. One subject that keeps coming to the front of my mind is objectification.
I have been putting pictures of myself, with corresponding fact or fantasy, on this site for almost two years now. I really didn’t think much of it because when the pictures were taken. I was with my lover in the physical act of love, as they say.
Lately I have been getting my cyber pleasure in a chat room on passion.com. I belong to a group there called “Talk Dirty To Me”. When it gets to cybersex, I find a lot of like-minded people, men and women there.
Things are a bit more nasty than the one on one chatting I’ve sometimes described here as stories.
Many times cams are involved and I enjoy getting the guys off and watching them cum. I rarely cum in these sessions, I’m very turned on, but that’s it.
It helps me in my writing. There is usually no small talk, no interesting chat beforehand. We all know why we’re there and we get down to it. Below are some one line examples. They are all from one night’s encounter.
I am there just to be plucked and fucked.
I am objectifying myself on purpose.
How can I be a free, liberated, feminist woman and do that?
I especially pose these questions to female bloggers out there that including pictures of themselves on their site.
Am I a hypocrite because I’m an exhibitionist at heart?
Why do I want to be treated as a lady and be fucked like a whore? At least it feels that way sometimes.
I don’t have any answers here. I’m sure there isn’t just one right one. I needed to rant a bit.
Now for those examples I promised:
debs be our spunk bucket empty our balls
debs want to make me come
ooh honey! your so so sexy, will you lick my cock clean now debs
debs, you licking my drooping happy cock clean is getting me hard again already
loved cumming over your face debs, you were sooo good<>
Your unbelievable, debs! I love fucking u, I'm thrusting harder and deeper now, wanna hear you moan when u cum
scream out my name debs!
I'm still thrusting you hard debs, your unbelievable sexy lady
Yeah honey, luv to make you cum, it's what I was born for
oh god Debs you sure no how to nibble a clit hon don't u
OOOOh Debs, your taking my breath away!
Thanks debs, yet again you were a goddess
my dick is rock hard for you now!