There is an interesting phenomena going on between CJ and me lately.
We have spoken about the physical attraction that we have for each other. The perfect sense of togetherness that is felt between lovers has been described in many different ways. For me I know it's that feeling of melting into one when CJ first enters me, slowly and with sensitivity and a special care.
Everything has two sides, and I believe CJ and I may be experiencing the other side of this physical attraction: Pain.
It seems as though we are encountering each other's aches and pains. It has been shoulder and back problems mostly, but they have been almost identical in symptoms.
I have also noticed that if one of us is 'down', tired, or in some other way not up to par, the other one doesn't seem to be at their best either.
Sympathy pains across the board normally are associated with childbirth, but CJ and I have been through that, and it was over 21 years ago.
CJ and I are great believers in soulmates and that we belong with each other. We are toying with the idea that this is all some sort of evolution in our relationship. Perhaps it's a way that nature reminds us that we have to take care of each other.
What I'm interested in is if anyone out there has run into anything like I describe here, if so, what were the circumstances?
What do you think of my theories?