CBW #97 Choices

Nothing like a choice on a cold winter's night. Phil sent me several pictures. He wanted me to choose, but you know with me it's just so HARD!
Phil did the type of pic I like, but I ended up showing off the one that has lots of things I like:
a stiff dick being released, smooth balls, and plenty of books.
Thanks again Phil.

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A Study In Bonding

I write a lot about couples bonding in one way, sexual satisfaction between loving partners or casual partners and even strangers. There are an infinite number of combinations, only some of which I’ve been writing about.
I didn’t want to move on this year without reminding the loving couples that read this blog about bonding with your mate.


Below is a list of typical bonding behaviors. Sometimes they fall by the wayside in long-term relationships. For more about bonding, there is a great article called “The Lazy Way To Stay In Love” on a site about healing with sexual relationships, Reuniting

So what behaviors can lovers use to signal each other that they want to deepen their emotional connection? Here is a list:
* smiling, with eye contact
* skin-to-skin contact
* providing a service or treat without being asked
* giving unsolicited approval, via smiles or compliments
* gazing into each other’s eyes for several moments
* listening intently, and restating what you hear
* forgiving or overlooking an error or thoughtless remark, whether past or present
* preparing your partner something to eat
* synchronized breathing
* kissing with lips and tongues
* cradling, or gently rocking, your partner’s head and torso (works well on a couch, or with lots of pillows)
* holding, or spooning, each other in stillness for at least twenty minutes to a half-hour
* wordless sounds of contentment and pleasure
* stroking with intent to comfort
* massaging with intent to comfort, especially feet, shoulders and head
* hugging with intent to comfort
* lying with your ear over your partner’s heart and listening to his or her heartbeat for several moments
* touching and sucking of nipples/breasts
* gently placing your palm over your lover’s genitals with intent to comfort
* making time together at bedtime a priority (even if one partner has to get up and work on something afterward)

The desire for, and rewards of, these behaviors are deeply rooted in millions of year of evolution. Enjoy!

CBW #96 A Soaker

I'm welcoming everyone back to my CBW's with one that M sent me.
M was kind enough not only to send Dirty Debbie a picture of his very ready cock, but also said he hoped that it got me wet.
Yes.
Very nice job M.

Remember guys, when I shut down the site in November I was so fed up with myself that I trashed all the CBW submissions I had. Please send them again if you emailed them to me before the last week in October.

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Debbie, CJ, and the Couch

In honor of CJ's birthday I chose today to start up my new year of blogging.
If it's been a while since you visited, be sure to check out all the ways you can become involved with Dirty Debbie's blogging.
Click on the sidebar for:

• Your ideas in the new suggestion box
• Have your fantasy written into a story by Dirty Debbie
• Submit your picture for CBW

Enough of the reintroduction of my blog. Onto the fun.

Recently CJ and I were enjoying a quite evening at home. Sometimes, especially in the colder weather, it’s nice to have some wine, and enjoy each other’s company. As it seems to be with us, I was soon cradled in his arms, feeling all warm and snuggly with my head on his chest.


Have I ever told you what a good kisser CJ is? I thought I might have. He leaned over and began to kiss me. I can so easily follow his lead when it comes to my tongue dancing with his. Fast, slow, warm, sensuous, soft, and perfect. It is a calming sensation that comes over me when CJ kisses me. That’s just what happened this time too. I’m sure it’s because of the bond we share outside the bedroom that makes me feel this why. I become very turned on by his kisses and it makes me want to submit instantly.

On this particular cold winter evening it wasn’t any different. As he moved to my ears, and then back down, I could feel my nipples harden and my senses heighten. From that moment on the melting into each other started.
He gently pushed me onto my back as he kept kissing, biting, and nibbling my neck. He rolled over on me, my legs instinctively spread to give him room to lie between them. I felt him harden as he began to squeeze and caress my tits. He likes to see my nipples push through my shirts. He pinched them as they showed themselves off. His hands were quickly all over me. I held him closer as he kept caressing my entire body.

Our clothing was becoming annoying by now and, although we didn’t tear at each other like teenagers, we did slowly help each other strip. All this while remaining on the couch. In fact, as you’ll find out, we didn’t leave the couch for a while.

The kissing and caressing continued. CJ moved to my neck and ears and his nibbling turned to bites. He drives me wild when he does this. My entire body started to rock against his. I got wetter and wetter. I held him tighter as he moved from neck to my tits. My nipples were as hard as erasers and my lover was hungry for them. CJ dove into my tits and I moaned as he nibbled on them and slowly filled my soaking pussy at the same time. I then experienced something I had never felt with any other lover. As CJ moved in and out of me and sucked my tits I could actually feel a sensation on my tongue! I couldn’t believe it and had to let CJ know even though it was as a moan, “My god I can even feel you on my tongue.”
It seemed to encourage CJ and he picked up the rhythm. Oh fuck I love it as I pulled up legs and hugged his sides with my knees.
In no time our love making intensified and being on a couch that meant that my head was banging against one arm of the couch and it wasn’t padded. CJ did his best to ease this with one arm wrapped around the back of my head. He tried to cushion my head, but to avail. I didn’t even feel it; the pleasure was outweighing any pain that may have been moving through my head.

Our bodies got warmer, moister, and if possible even closer as we moved with more intensity. Yes my head pushed into the wooden confinement behind me, but it was wonderful waves running through me was all I felt.
I think it will be his turn next time. “Ride ‘em cowgirl”

Off To A Good Start

I hope that everyone enjoyed ringing in the New Year.
I thought I would let everyone know that I'm hard at work on my stories. Take a look at my desktop today. It's my writing editor (Scrivener), my dictionary/thesarus, and notes.

And A Happy New Year

Greetings and well wishes from CJ and Debbie to all our readers.

If you haven't already done so, please read the Christmas post to learn about the updates and new ideas for the coming year and beyond for Dirty Debbie.

Shall I do another retrospect this year?
The one that brought us into the new year of 2008 is here.

I started this blog in July of 2005.
This year probably had the most pauses, stumbles and sputters, but again in the new year things will be renewed, isn't that the promise of this time of year?
I too will be renewed and I believe CJ will to.

As in past years there is at least a short list of bloggers that I will continue to miss into the new year:
Ken and Jen the Dirty Couple in Virginia
The Cunnilingus Blog
The Emergence of Minxdom

But this year also included me be invited to be a Fellatrix at The Fellatrices
We moved from CJ Fridays to CJ having his own site as Dirty Debbie's CJ
And the thing I'm most proud of was both CJ and I were put in the top 100 sex blogs at numbers 63 and 64

As most of you don't know, when I'm not Dirty Debbie on the internet I am known as Plum Blossom. Plum Blosson has been online for 13 years now. I couldn't resist using this picture to show me during the holidays.

So This Is Christmas

From the welcoming household of CJ and Debbie we wish you all Happy Holidays, no matter which holiday it is you celebrate. In our household it's closer the the pagan holiday Yule.

Another report is that I will return to my blog after the first week of the new year (CJ's birthday is right after New Year's)
The new year may bring a few more posts with more opinions than before. I'm also going to install a suggestion box on the sidebar. Please use it.
We are all going to get back to having some fun around here. The more the merrier. Send along suggestions, fantasies about Debbie doing you, and those wonderful CBW's. In fact, a note to any of my readers that sent along CBW's before I shut down in the middle of November. Please resend your pics. I was in a cynical mood about my inspiration, or lack thereof, and deleted all your beautiful cocks. Please replenish me guys.