I just finished watching a movie that was so I good that I had to tell others about it:
It's a must see, below is the description from Netflix:
Recently released from a mental hospital after treatment for self-mutilating tendencies, a young woman (Maggie Gyllenhaal) gets a job as a secretary for a successful attorney (James Spader) with a tendency toward angry disapproval. The mix of self-loathing (her) and egomania (him) leads them into a unique relationship charged with sadomasochism. This twisted, humorous tale of repressed passion marks Gyllenhaal's first starring role.
It's not only the sex, it's the whole look at love and finding the right person.
If you've already seen it, let me know what you thought, if not...rent it!
Now I can finish typing up my next story, I had to stop to fully enjoy the movie.