Oh sure that sounds like an easy question, depending on your point of view. Sex is for making babies, sex is for feeling good, sex is for showing the greatest affection, sex gives me something to write about in my blog.
Wondering why I've chosen to speak about all this tonight?
It's something I overheard at work while a group of people were taking a break. Forgive me if the following discussion seems vague, but I want to keep people as anonymous as possible.
A younger woman was speaking to an older woman about certain things going on in her life. A focal point of the discussion was things that her husband wouldn't do. No I'm not talking about in bed, I'm taking about in the home and some of his outlooks on life. The older woman's advise was actually to withhold sex from him. I couldn't believe it! It sounded so archaic. I couldn't hold back in making a comment.
"I vowed a long time ago never to use sex as a weapon"
I didn't expound on it. I saw the woman's face drop just for a second. I knew I made my point.
It's true. I have never refused or held sex back for a certain amount of time to get something I want. The whole thought of it disgusts me.
On the other end of the scale I have never had make-up sex either.
I have had break up sex. When I broke up with guy I was seeing to get back together with CJ there was a lot of guilt (I had already cheated on him) and crying. Then for some reason I got very turned on. I told him to fuck me like in the beginning. The relationship started out as fuck buddies and had gotten more involved. It was pure hard hot fucking, then good-bye.
So other than good old lovemaking, what kinds of sex have you had?
Do you use sex as weapon?
What do you think?